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Monday, September 11, 2006

To the brats in my life....

Before you get double-meaning(ed) ideas from the title, let me clarify. This post is dedicated to the spoiled, ill-behaved people a.k.a brats I've met in my life. These people have contributed to ruining my mood a few times and I've had a few moments of hurt/pain because of them. But nonetheless, these people are important to me because they succeed in teaching me a few lessons of life that even my closest relations cannot teach me! :) If you're a brat, please don't read this post since it may contain certain unflattering remarks about you.

The first and biggest brat I've met so far in my life is one of my cousins. I refrain from mentioning her name in the unfortunate event that this person comes across my blog (and also to save the family izzat? :)). To her alone goes the dubious distinction of having the most acerbic tongue, the ability to unswervingly sting people in their weakest areas and attaining satisfaction from their pain.

During my college years, I met a replica of X. By then, I had become experienced enough in dodging such personalities. My association thus was extremely limited with Brat No. 2. Of course, after coming to the US, I've met quite a few more.

One thing I understood while dealing with brats is that its always about you. YOU made them angry. YOU insulted them. YOU annoyed them. YOU are the problem. YOU are dumb/untalented/boring. They are the most perfect, beautiful, smart, talented beings ever created by Brahma (or Christ or Allah).

I've seen parents/friends/relatives condone such behaviour dismissing it as "childish" or "immature" or "Oh he's my only pampered son!" or "You're elder..why don't you adjust?".

My argument:

How can being rude or hurting others ever be "childish"? Isn't a child supposed to be the embodiment of divinity? "Devilish" is more like brats than "childish"..:) How can a child even conceive of hurting others? And haven't these people ever heard of the quote:

ஐந்தில் விளையாதது ஐம்பதில் விளையாது. (What isn't sowed at 5 won't be sowed at 50 either).

The point is - if kids make a mistake, you correct it and teach them the right way. You don't justify it. To my parents or anyone 30 years elder to me, I will be a kid even now. So can I behave any way I want and hope to get away with it?

I guess we all have a brat in us. I have my own likes/dislikes/anger etc...But I know that disliking someone doesn't give me the right to hurt them in private or in public. And even if I did, I'd probably apologize.

Spitefulness is never justifiable. And brats, thank you for teaching me how NOT to live life! :)

That's my rant for now...

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

very true...
but en ivlo disturbedaa iruka??(naanum tension poduven dhaan)coola podu maa...eppo el paso vara?? tripkku plana podu !!
priya

Arvind Ramachandran said...

yea..that's very true..and some "brats" would like to show show that they are superior over "YOU" or "ME"...that's the main motive of "brats" bullying others...

Sayee said...

You finally did have to write something about Dinesh didnt you.

dinesh said...

Vandhuttaan Ya Vandhuttaan Ya !

Muthukumar Puranam said...

ethana tharam solrathu public thittatha, insult pannatha nu..u brat!

(ofcourse it is known fact that I am perfect!)

Prabu Karthik said...

Hm. Thanks for dedicating a post to guys like me ;p

Subha said...

Priya,
Disturbed ellam illai...Just a rant. El Paso trip-a? :) yosikkaren...

Arvind,

Yeah..true!

Sayee,

Exactly. After my recent NJ trip, I realized what a brat Dinesh really is! :)

Dinesh,

Unnai pathi naalu peru perumaiya pesikkarom illai...:)

Subha said...

PB,
LOL! Of course, neenga semma perfect!

Subha said...

PK,
You're welcome!:) "naan brat", "nee brat" nu ipdi sandai pottukkareengale...:))

Venky Krishnamoorthy said...

Zen!

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punnaakumaama said...

kavala badaaadha ba.. romba nondhu noolaayirukuranu theriyudhu..but anyways u have put it in a gud way.. kudos..