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Saturday, May 09, 2009

Vices and People..

Some of the most entertaining and likeable people I know smoke and drink. Interestingly, all of them are men. They belong to different generations and some of them have quite a number of other vices as well -- women, gambling etc.. But they're charming rascals all the same! A lot of my strait-laced friends are quite interesting in their own way. But they lack that dare-devil, happy-go-lucky, crowd-pleasing charm of the former category.

Do entertaining/interesting people have vices because they're very open to new experiences and sometimes, these new experiences turn out to be addictive? Or does having vices generally gives you a certain perspective about human life that you become extremely tolerant and well-loved by other people?

7 comments:

P B said...

dinesha romba miss panra pola iruke?

RS said...

Or maybe, there is this mischievous streak in all of us that we curtail...and when we see people uninhibitedly doing what they please, a small part of us wants to do that too -- not necessarily drinking/smoking but just being wild...you get the picture?

prabukarthik said...

It seems like the cliche, 'rich guys do not get a peaceful sleep while poor folks do'

Peaceful sleep is independent of money. I think the same goes for being likeable and having vices.

Chemical dependence is a sure shot way to misery in the long run. In general, folks who don't smoke nor drink are much liked by their family members...

Anonymous said...

Many start smoking & drinking to explore what it means. Few continue it due to peer pressure. Few more continue it, 'cos nobody told them to stop it (restraints from partner). A few do not realize it is a vice.

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Viji said...

"Drink and be merry" comes to mind.

Viji said...

Are you talking about your "Indian" friends or is this what you have noticed in general too?