tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post112424196978298043..comments2023-11-26T03:32:48.767-05:00Comments on Doodles: Of Baddies and Hum Tum and so on....The Doodlerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02918716290391569295noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124794974452483002005-08-23T07:02:00.000-04:002005-08-23T07:02:00.000-04:00Subha, although you bring a female's perspective t...Subha, although you bring a female's perspective to relationships, I must say in my experience, it is the men at the receiving end these days :-)Krishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14039017773493094559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124630624209071122005-08-21T09:23:00.000-04:002005-08-21T09:23:00.000-04:00sama kaara saara discussion pola ...hmnn.."oru vaz...sama kaara saara discussion pola ...hmnn..<BR/>"oru vazhiyaaga ella kelvikalukkum bathil alitha Ms subhashini avarkalukku 100 mathipengal!!!" :)-Maayaahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12788090569924094286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124423775962238492005-08-18T23:56:00.000-04:002005-08-18T23:56:00.000-04:00ungaLukku konjam therinja anonymous thaangO.yaarun...ungaLukku konjam therinja anonymous thaangO.<BR/><BR/>yaarunnu reveal paNNa round katti adikka pOreengaLaa?<BR/><BR/>ippavE onnu clear paNNikarengO:<BR/><BR/>oppositeS-nnu paNmayila thaan sonnenungO. so it applies to both sex-ngO. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124409414691609682005-08-18T19:56:00.000-04:002005-08-18T19:56:00.000-04:00Subha,You almost got it there ;)"..in general, is ...Subha,<BR/><BR/>You almost got it there ;)<BR/><BR/>"..in general, is that people who know to dish it out should well know how to take it too.."<BR/><BR/>Bottomline : most people are not equipped to handle what they dish out :-). If for a second, you assume, everything was the same - there will not be any gradient and nothing changes - ONLY coz there is a gradient, everything happens....and the gradient will continue to be there :-)<BR/><BR/>Note - the direction of gradient not specified.<BR/><BR/>If your question is - why should the gradient be not bi-directional - perfectly valid point - just a matter of time ;)<BR/><BR/>If your question is - why should there be a gradient - then i don't have a point :P<BR/><BR/>Guess, have confused you all now :-DArvind Srinivasanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16800598080457152364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124399711939619672005-08-18T17:15:00.000-04:002005-08-18T17:15:00.000-04:00@Anonymous,yaarungo neengo? Arvind,well, the argum...@Anonymous,<BR/>yaarungo neengo? <BR/><BR/>Arvind,<BR/>well, the argument cannot apply to parents and children..and first of all, the people I am talking about are NOT children..:) It is a question of reactions when everybody is on a peer-level interaction.<BR/>But what are you trying to say? That 'an eye for an eye makes the entire world blind"??The Doodlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02918716290391569295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124399587935045932005-08-18T17:13:00.000-04:002005-08-18T17:13:00.000-04:00VV,see, the thing is girls are generally non-confr...VV,<BR/>see, the thing is girls are generally non-confrontational which is why no girl makes a big deal of these things..but we are like Mt. Vesuvius..:) We hold all these things in our mind and explode one fine day to the confusion of the guy in question..!The Doodlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02918716290391569295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124399464607060372005-08-18T17:11:00.000-04:002005-08-18T17:11:00.000-04:00Kamal,Thanks. ANM, thanks for the new acronym..:)K...Kamal,<BR/>Thanks. ANM, thanks for the new acronym..:)<BR/>Kishan,<BR/>Oops, Didn't know I had a Telugu reader on my blog..:) Will try to keep it strictly english.<BR/>Ferrari,<BR/>I guess so..:)<BR/>Zeppelin,<BR/>Will check it out!The Doodlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02918716290391569295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124393732293807282005-08-18T15:35:00.000-04:002005-08-18T15:35:00.000-04:00@arun,in response to Subha's query "...Arvind,I am...@arun,<BR/><BR/>in response to Subha's query <BR/><BR/>"...Arvind,<BR/>I am not seeing how you extend the argument to parents and children..?!ennoda brain konjam slow..:)Manichukkonga!<BR/>"Arvind Srinivasanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16800598080457152364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124382996754771832005-08-18T12:36:00.000-04:002005-08-18T12:36:00.000-04:00Indha madhiri edhirmaara yosikaradhu naala dhaane ...<I>Indha madhiri edhirmaara yosikaradhu naala dhaane opposites attract aagaradhu?</I><BR/><BR/>indha maadhiri edhirmaraya yosikkaradhu naala opposites attract aagudhO illayO opposites attack aagudhu.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124381095477277312005-08-18T12:04:00.000-04:002005-08-18T12:04:00.000-04:00@ arvind,enna machi, same comment again ? uda maat...@ arvind,<BR/><BR/>enna machi, same comment again ?<BR/><BR/> uda maata pola ? ;)Zeppelinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02719757977467048825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124379735882938232005-08-18T11:42:00.000-04:002005-08-18T11:42:00.000-04:00Subha,Still in the 8086 days ? :PYou summing up......Subha,<BR/><BR/>Still in the 8086 days ? :P<BR/><BR/>You summing up...<BR/><BR/>"..in general, is that people who know to dish it out should well know how to take it too.."<BR/><BR/>Me comments...<BR/><BR/>"If we continue to build up on the argument, parents can say the samething about children - how about when parents start crying and throwing tantrums, when they don't have their way with children ;)"<BR/><BR/>any bells ? count bells ? :)Arvind Srinivasanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16800598080457152364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124377343087192402005-08-18T11:02:00.000-04:002005-08-18T11:02:00.000-04:00I rarely find girls dishing out what they get and ...I rarely find girls dishing out what they get and that emboldens the attitude on guys.<BR/><BR/>If they respond immediately and directly in a non-confrontational approach i think that would inculcate some sense in these kind of people. <BR/>-vvAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124369922408811922005-08-18T08:58:00.000-04:002005-08-18T08:58:00.000-04:00yes you are right, there are remnants of such beha...yes you are right, there are remnants of such behaviour well beyond college years... but hey, there are exceptions to everything, right ?<BR/> <BR/>abou the nice guy finishing last, I agree.... but ending up with the best girl in town ? hmmm..that I dont know.. :)<BR/><BR/>btw, have you read this ? <A HREF="http://samadrishti.blogspot.com/2005/06/ode-to-nice-guy.html" REL="nofollow">Ode to The Nice Guy</A><BR/><BR/>cheers!Zeppelinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02719757977467048825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124356601481513682005-08-18T05:16:00.000-04:002005-08-18T05:16:00.000-04:00Indha madhiri vishayangaL makes life interesting :...Indha madhiri vishayangaL makes life interesting :)<BR/><BR/>Indha madhiri edhirmaara yosikaradhu naala dhaane opposites attract aagaradhu? ;-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124333293828394862005-08-17T22:48:00.000-04:002005-08-17T22:48:00.000-04:00Subha...Can you pls translate when u write somethi...Subha...<BR/><BR/>Can you pls translate when u write something in tamil !!!....This poor guy is a telugu ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124328740160507812005-08-17T21:32:00.000-04:002005-08-17T21:32:00.000-04:00FCS is actually courtesy - ANM. Giving credit wher...FCS is actually courtesy - <A HREF="http://anonamemoose.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">ANM</A>. Giving credit where its due :)kamalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11500212471802282914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124322836884175692005-08-17T19:53:00.001-04:002005-08-17T19:53:00.001-04:00tj,azhudhuttu HOD, director kitta poradhellam LKG-...tj,<BR/>azhudhuttu HOD, director kitta poradhellam LKG-la..:) College-la vandhu idhai endha ponnum panni naan parthadhilleeengo! Naan Trichy-la padichen.The Doodlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02918716290391569295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124322782264041152005-08-17T19:53:00.000-04:002005-08-17T19:53:00.000-04:00Arun a.k.a zeppelin,What you say is very true. Ipd...Arun a.k.a zeppelin,<BR/>What you say is very true. Ipdi panraangale nu manasu varutha patta kaalam ellam 1st year oda pochu! :) I came to realize what guys tend to say and what they mean are usually two different things! As I said, mostly they are decent and they come and apologize. Hmmm..but I've seen some remnants of this behaviour always carry on past the teens. But anyways, I am not giving up on the few gentlemen of this world! You see, I do believe that even if Nice Guys Finish last, they end up last with the best girl in town..:))The Doodlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02918716290391569295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124322532531411092005-08-17T19:48:00.000-04:002005-08-17T19:48:00.000-04:00@Agnibarathi,LOLRS,Looks like I am getting spammed...@Agnibarathi,<BR/>LOL<BR/>RS,<BR/>Looks like I am getting spammed! Help!<BR/>Arvind,<BR/>I am not seeing how you extend the argument to parents and children..?!ennoda brain konjam slow..:)Manichukkonga!The Doodlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02918716290391569295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124322414077817952005-08-17T19:46:00.000-04:002005-08-17T19:46:00.000-04:00Anand,Agree with all your 3 points especially your...Anand,<BR/>Agree with all your 3 points especially your last one..:) I think its fun that men and women are different..otherwise, this world will be a uniform monotone of cliched behaviours..:) And we wouldn't have funny shows like "Everybody Loves Raymond"!!The Doodlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02918716290391569295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124322295601880492005-08-17T19:44:00.000-04:002005-08-17T19:44:00.000-04:00Priya,subset concept thambi lerndhu, best friends ...Priya,<BR/>subset concept thambi lerndhu, best friends varaikkum ella pasangalukkum true..:)! Hmm..I wouldn't say all guys would "estimate" girls..more often, I've found men rarely ever take the time to *estimate*..they are occupied with other things! LOLThe Doodlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02918716290391569295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124313733472801472005-08-17T17:22:00.000-04:002005-08-17T17:22:00.000-04:00Yappa sariyaana kaaram!Aamam neenga yendha college...Yappa sariyaana kaaram!<BR/>Aamam neenga yendha college??<BR/><BR/>Half the girls might cry, and the rest half will go to Princi or Director or HOD, saying that the guys is teasing. <BR/><BR/>Adhukku dhaan andha direkson laye thirumba koodadhunu periyava ellam solli irukka. Aedhavadhu pesuvane, apporam insensitive MCP nu tag vaangikuvane.. ;)TJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05751857700666159784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124310974335731652005-08-17T16:36:00.000-04:002005-08-17T16:36:00.000-04:00subha,interesting post.. just wanted to add some v...subha,<BR/><BR/>interesting post.. <BR/><BR/>just wanted to add some view/opinions and some other tit-bits of info on this topic. :) (pardon me for occasional digression, if any) <BR/><BR/>Most of what you have mentioned happens, especially when guys/gals are in the teens and/or just out of it. Now, i am not trying to justify the actions of either the boys or girls... <BR/><BR/>Some guys do it for the following possible reasons: (from UG experience..:))<BR/>1. Insecurity<BR/>2. Creating grounds to finally talk to that girl that he always wanted to... :)<BR/>3. Being Mr.Smarty Pants (or so they think)<BR/>4. To have a sense of belonging among a gang of peers.. i.e giving in to peer pressure..<BR/><BR/>now, some of the guys who actually do the bad mouthing realise that the women folk have taken it rather personally and try to apologise and make-do... but when some his mate sees this..END OF STORY ! 'machi, andha naai poyum poyum ava kitta poi sorry solran da...blah blah...'.. So the story continues and the guy does the so-called 'innocent' name-calling and whatnot just to impress his 'gang'.. :)<BR/><BR/>as for others who do not fit in the above sample set, no words to describe...:(<BR/><BR/>again, I feel all this happens in the turbulent adolescence period.. once out of that, most guys realise that girls are equally human... <BR/><BR/>Hope all this makes sense... so dont give up on the would-be-gentlemen.. is my humble request.. ;)Zeppelinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02719757977467048825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124299909927549162005-08-17T13:31:00.000-04:002005-08-17T13:31:00.000-04:00Subha - looks like you are geeting spammed too - w...Subha - looks like you are geeting spammed too - what is FCPG?<BR/><BR/>Anyway - entertaining post :)<BR/><BR/>Part of what goes into the aphorism - "Boys will be boys" :)RShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11472333363851646195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7553375.post-1124292213270537262005-08-17T11:23:00.000-04:002005-08-17T11:23:00.000-04:00Subha, is this your idea of 'entertaining' :P ? If...Subha,<BR/> is this your idea of 'entertaining' :P ?<BR/><BR/> If we continue to build up on the argument, parents can say the samething about children - how about when parents start crying and throwing tantrums, when they don't have their way with children ;)<BR/><BR/> And recursively apply that, what would HE (no genders applicable) do ?Arvind Srinivasanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16800598080457152364noreply@blogger.com